Hi, I’m Ravi, and I want to share my story with you. A few months ago, my life fell apart, and I had no idea how I was going to get through it. But, thanks to FeelyTalk and the lovely people on the site, I discovered ways to rise again.
How It All Started
I was living what many would consider a good life. I had a secure career as a software engineer in Pune, a long-term relationship with my partner, Sneha, and intended to buy my first home. I thought I had everything sorted out.
Then, in just two weeks, everything changed.
Sneha quit our five-year relationship, claiming she needed space. It turned out she’d met someone else. I was heartbroken and felt cheated. My firm announced significant layoffs two days after, so I didn’t even have time to comprehend this. I was one of the unlucky people.
Suddenly, I was alone, unemployed, and drowning in EMIs for the car I purchased last year. I felt as if the walls were closing in on me.
Looking for helping hands
One night, unable to sleep and anxious for someone to talk to, I searched on the web for “need to talk with someone who understands.” That’s when I discovered FeelyTalk.
I hesitated to download the application at first. What if it didn’t help? But something within me said, “You’ve got nothing to lose.”
After signing up, I was met by Rhea, a listener who identified herself as a Calm Friend. Her reply felt warm and sincere, so I decided to make my first call.
My first conversation on FeelyTalk
I’ll admit it; I was nervous. What would I say? Would she judge me? But Rhea’s voice was calming and reassuring. She said, “Hello, Ravi. Take your time. “I am here to listen.”
For the first time in weeks, I spoke up about everything—how betrayed I felt by Sneha, the worry of losing my job, and the anxiety of not being able to make ends meet. Rhea did not interrupt or rush me. She listened intently and asked meaningful questions, like:
“What’s been the hardest part for you?”
“How do you feel when you think about the future?”
That talk was not only soothing; it was life-changing. I felt lighter, like if someone finally understood my suffering.
Discovering a Community
Following my discussion with Rhea, I explored further FeelyTalk features. I discovered a part where I could connect with new friends who were also going through difficult circumstances.
I joined the group chat “Bouncing Back from Breakups.” To my amazement, everyone there seemed friendly and relatable. People discussed their difficulties, but more significantly, how they were dealing and rebuilding their lives.
When I told my story, I was treated with love and encouragement:
“You’re not alone, Ravi.”
“It’s okay to feel lost right now.”
“You’ll get through this, one step at a time.”
These chats gave me hope.
Taking small steps forward
I began rebuilding my life in small steps, guided by Rhea and inspired by the group. Rhea advised developing a simple process to bring some stability:
Each morning, meditate or practice deep breathing.
Write down three things towards which I am grateful.
Set one achievable goal for each day.
These seemingly minor steps have a significant impact. I began applying for jobs again. At first, the rejections hurt, but Rhea told me, “Every ‘no’ is a step closer to a ‘yes.'” Slowly, I started to believe in myself again.
Finding My Path
Months later, I got a job at a startup. It wasn’t as lucrative as my former position, but it was a fresh start. I also began freelancing as a web developer, a desire I had postponed for years.
On the personal level, I discovered peace. I no longer yearned for Sneha. Instead, I focused on self-love and personal development.
Giving Back
FeelyTalk became an important part of my journey that I wanted to give back. I signed up to be a listener so that I could help others in the same way that Rhea and my group had helped me.
Today, I’m thriving—not because life suddenly became easier, but because I learned how to deal with the difficulties.
Why use FeelyTalk?
If you are feeling lost or overwhelmed and think, “I need to talk with someone,” I highly recommend FeelyTalk. It’s more than just an app; it’s a support system, a community, and a place where you can feel understood.
Whether you want to speak with a certified listener or make new friends who understand what you’re going through, FeelyTalk is here for you.
If I can restore my life, you can, too. Take the first step; it might simply change everything.
Your journey to well-being begins today.