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Hi there, I’m Ananya. I want to tell you a very personal story of how circumstances forced me to be completely silent, a quiet I thought would never end. However, I was able to reconnect with the world by making a single, minor choice.

The Isolation That Accompanied Me

I was always the “quiet kid” in Pune when I was growing up. Despite their encouragement, my family wasn’t the type to publicly show their feelings. The majority of the conversations were transactional and centered on assignments or schoolwork. I eventually learnt to suppress my emotions.

Being an adult made me more independent, but it also made me feel more alone. I lacked social skills, had shallow friendships, and spent my evenings looking around social media incessantly while wishing I had someone to contact. Despite being surrounded by people, I felt as though I was living in a vacuum.

A Last-Ditch Attempt to Connect

One night, loneliness became too much to bear. The phrases “How to stop feeling so alone,” “No one to talk to,” and, lastly, “Apps to chat with new friends” all reflected my desperate search history. At that point, I came upon FeelyTalk. I felt like I was being addressed directly by the phrase, “Need to talk with someone?”

After some hesitation, I downloaded the app. I made an account in a matter of seconds and stepped into a new universe where connecting wasn’t merely a possibility—it was the goal.

My First Conversation

I was paired via the app with a listener called Riya, who identified as a Calm Friend. “Hello Ananya, I’m here to listen,” was her first message. Take your time and talk about whatever that makes you feel at ease.

I let myself talk about my life for the first time in years. I talked about my loneliness, my inability to build relationships, and my fear of being misunderstood. “It takes courage to open up,” Riya said empathetically, without hurrying me. I am here to help you.

I was unaware of the load I had been carrying until we had that chat.

Finding a Community

I looked at the group conversations on FeelyTalk in addition to the one-on-one conversations. I joined a group called “Quiet Souls United,” where people talked about their experiences of loneliness and their attempts to get back in touch with the outside world.

I got to know people like Meera, a woman rediscovering herself after years of concentrating only on her family, and Arjun, a young man struggling with homesickness in a new place. I could relate to their stories and felt less alone.

Our group eventually developed into a secure environment for discussing both successes and failures. These experiences, which ranged from talking about the books we both enjoyed to congratulating Arjun on landing his first job, made me realize that a connection didn’t need to be flawless; it just needed to be genuine.

The Effect of Little Steps

FeelyTalk included a tool that let users create daily objectives. My choice was straightforward: “Every day, say something meaningful to at least one person.” I started this exercise on the app, but it quickly spread to my real life.

I began striking up little discussions with coworkers at work. I told Priya, a coworker who appeared to be just as reserved as I used to be, about my experience with FeelyTalk one day. She talked candidly about her personal loneliness, which surprised me. I still treasure the friendship that was started by that chat.

Discovering Happiness in the Commonplace

My path also included a component of self-discovery. I was encouraged by Riya to try journaling as a method of thinking processing. I started to appreciate the beauty in the little things, like a kind remark from a complete stranger, the hues of the sunset, or even the simple pleasure of making my own morning tea, thanks to this exercise.

I came to see that although loneliness might be overwhelming, it can be countered by valuing the relationships we do have, no matter how brief or little.

A Message for Individuals Who Feel Alone

Know that I’ve been there if you’re reading this and feel like you have no one to talk to. Lack of companionship is only one aspect of loneliness; another is the absence of deep connections. I learned from FeelyTalk that even a tiny starting step might result in significant transformations.

FeelyTalk is a place for everyone, whether you’re searching for a sympathetic ear or want to talk to new people. The silence need not be faced by you alone. Begin as a whisper and allow it to develop into a voice that binds you to the outside world.

Hello, I’m Kiran. I’m 28, and I’ve spent most of my life in silence—not because I couldn’t speak, but because I didn’t have someone to talk to. This is the story of how FeelyTalk transformed my perspective and helped me rediscover what it means to connect with others.

The Weight of Loneliness

I was raised in a small town in Uttar Pradesh. My parents were strict and traditional, and we rarely talked about anything other than our daily tasks. After finishing college, I relocated to Delhi for a job, looking for a new beginning.

However, city life did not meet my expectations. My colleagues were friendly but preoccupied with their own lives. My few college buddies have drifted away, caught up in their own paths. Weekends became the loneliest times of my life. I’d sit in my small rented apartment, scrolling endlessly through social media, watching people share moments of joy, laughter, and connection—things I wished for but lacked.

I used to wonder, “Why hasn’t anyone noticed me?” Do I really matter to anyone?” I realized I hadn’t had a meaningful conversation in months. The loneliness felt like an unending hole.

Discovering FeelyTalk.

One night, I entered in Google: “Need to talk with someone.” Among the search results was FeelyTalk, an app that promised to link you with vetted listeners and a community of caring individuals.

I was skeptical. Could an app actually help someone like me? But urgency trumped skepticism, so I decided to give it a shot.

The First Message

I signed up and was met by Aman, a listener who identified himself as a Happy Coach. It seemed silly that someone could be cheerful when I was so broken, yet his message was warm:

“Hello, Kiran! I’m available whenever you’re ready to talk. “There’s no rush.”

After a few minutes of reluctance, I began typing. I told Aman about my loneliness, how I felt invisible, and how I hadn’t had a meaningful discussion in weeks. His remark was not just compassionate, but also affirming.

“I am so glad you shared this, Kiran,” he continued. “Being lonely is awful, but you’re not alone.

 “Let us talk about it together.”

For the first time, I felt like someone genuinely cared.

Community of Support

After my appointment with Aman, I continued to explore the app. There was a function that allowed me to chat with new acquaintances who were dealing with similar life issues.

I joined a group chat named “Lonely Hearts Club.” I smiled at the name. It was packed with people from all walks of life, including a college student yearning home, a retired teacher who had lost her partner, and even a young businesswoman who was struggling with isolation despite her success.

I addressed myself as “Hi, my name is Kiran.” I’m not used to talking a lot, but I’d like to try.”

Responses were immediate and kind:

“Welcome, Kiran! We are delighted you are here.

“Take your time; we’re here for you.”

“This is a safe space to share.”

Over the next two weeks, I became more open. I told you how I spent my weekends alone, how I dreaded festivals because they reminded me of how detached I felt, and how much I wished for simple things like having someone to eat supper with.

One day, someone in the group proposed a simple challenge: “Let’s all share one thing we’re grateful for today.” It seemed foolish at first, but it eventually became a daily practice that offered surprising joy.

The Turning Point

One evening, after a particularly difficult day at work, I felt the old impulse to withdraw into silence. Instead, I reached out to Aman.

“I feel invisible again,” I confessed.

Aman replied, “Kiran, you are not invisible to me or the friends you’ve made here.

Sometimes our imaginations deceive us into believing lies about our worth. Let’s rewrite the story together.”

He led me through a simple exercise. I had to write down three things I appreciated about myself. It was difficult at first, but I managed.

I’m kind to animals.

I am a good listener.

I have an excellent memory for details.

That simple activity instilled a sense of self-acceptance.

Building a New Life

FeelyTalk gradually became an integral part of my existence. The app connected me not only with listeners like Aman, but also with friends who understood and supported me.

One day, a groupmate asked us to a virtual movie night. We watched an old Bollywood film together, conversing and laughing the entire time. For the first time in years, I felt like I fit in anywhere.

I also began implementing the habits Aman suggested:

Every night, I journal my thoughts.

I go for brief walks to clear my head.

Reaching out to at least one person every day, even if it was as easy as asking “How are you?”

These simple modifications made me feel more connected to the world around me.

Finding my voice

Months later, I recognized how much I had progressed. Conversations, laughing, and support replaced the silence that had previously defined my life.

One day, I decided to share my experiences with the group. “I used to think I didn’t matter,” I confessed. “But thanks to everyone, I’ve learnt that I do. Thank you for assisting me in discovering my unique voice.”

The responses flowed in:

“You’ve always mattered, Kiran.”

“We’re so proud of you!”

“You inspire us.”

Final Thoughts.

If you’re reading this and feel like you don’t have anyone to talk to, I want you to know that you are not alone. There are people out there who care, even if you have not met them yet.

FeelyTalk provided me with a new family when I thought I didn’t have one. Whether you need to talk to someone or make new friends, this app could be the first step toward a brighter, more connected future.

Take that action. You should be heard.